Most people including me consider ourselves as lucky as we have ONE or TWO friends that we can count on. But even if we do have HUGE circle of CLOSE friends, why NOT? Right? Hah.
However, most important things is you yourself consider you as a friend, and totally understand who you hang out with.
Your friends can be a huge influences in your life.
It you hang out with the wrong ones, you might ends up in the wrong path same as if you hang out with good ones, you might ends up in good life too.
It you hang out with the wrong ones, you might ends up in the wrong path same as if you hang out with good ones, you might ends up in good life too.
As when I was the age of 11, I used to be very rude.
I was pain in the ass when I was in the young age.
Vulgarity is like my daily routine.
However as I grow older, I realize I should put a stop to this.
I started telling myself if my dad from the above would be disappointed if I keep on with this attitude.
Then I made up my mind to dodge myself away from all the dark side and choose the friends that I really want to stay close and trust the most. I want those friends that can make me a better person, smarter, more loving, more open minded, more collaborative, more God loving, more grateful, more forgiving and more obedient to our parents.
Main reminder, do not ever expect others to make commitment that you wouldn't make.
In fact, I would advise you to give more than those who support and encourage you.
Think as your friendship as sharing your favorite burger with your friends
If they bite a few bites of your burger, you might have the crave to have it back from them right straight away.
But sharing make things more yummy.
But sharing make things more yummy.
I can't stress enough how vital it is to have positive people in your life and how dangerous it is to hang out with those who don't actually bring out the best in you.
"In our culture, people always compare with each other and they can easily focus on what they don't have, their limitations," once said by the greatest,Ignatius.
It's actually doesn't matter and not your fault.
Just that everyone is doing it and eventually you'll just follow it.
But now I'm trying to persuade you to change it into different perspective.
You can actually try to improve yourself of what you are not good at and learn from your friends!=D
Well I'm not trying to ask you to copy your friends, what I'm trying to carry out is if you don't learn the positives from your friends, what else are you gonna learn?
Sometimes we tends to hide our weakness within ourselves but trust me that rarely works out well.
So my advise over here is to be YOURSELF and find those people who willing to accept the REAL YOU.
I know we all feel lonely at some points in our lives. Yet I believe there'e no one hasn't felt that before right?
The first step to avoid the loneliness, is to instead of waiting people to come over you is you YOURSELF have to move forwards first.
